Who doesn’t love a great gift? It’s always fun to receive presents, but also satisfying to know when we’ve given that perfect “something” to a special loved one.
The practice of gift-giving dates back to the Magi (Wise Men) bringing three gifts—Gold, Frankincense, and Myrrh—to Baby Jesus. These particular gifts had symbolic meaning for Christ’s life—gold representing His kingship, frankincense a symbol of His priestly role, and myrrh a prefiguring of His death and embalming.
Although we don’t hold these qualities of deity, we can still practice this custom of sharing meaningful gifts with family and friends.
The “Three Gifts” Plan
My sister, Celeste, and her husband established the Magi’s model of “three gifts” as a tradition of Christmas gifting early in their marriage. The rule was set: each one was to purchase only three gifts for the other person. The gifts were to be meaningful and of value (not something that would be purchased for oneself any other given day). In other words—they wanted to keep it special!
Although the idea is for the three gifts to be of special value to your family member or friend, you don’t want to break the bank in doing so! Remember things such as sentimentality, hobbies, lessons, and collections—gifts that will be remembered and treasured.
You may also want to incorporate the three gifts rule if you have children at home. This will help cut down on making last-minute purchases for items that really aren’t necessary or cherished. Give thought to items of interest your child talks about non-stop or absolutely loves doing, and then buy these special things within your budgetary restraints.
Holiday shopping can be as easy as 1—2—3!